We all live in a world where everyone meets the other "by clothes." Fashion magazines and TV forces women to believe that the beauty of their souls is insignificant, because in order to find a “worthy” husband, you must always put in order an external “wrapper”.
If women begin to focus on their appearance and bring themselves to the absurd "perfection", then why should not a man, listening to the same sources, think the same way? That is why many modern guys choose for themselves the most attractive girl for very specific purposes, which we will consider below.
10. He only needs sex
Animal relations, which are commonly called “sex” in society, have recently been completely devoid of a spiritual component and harmony. Therefore, what difference does what another person feels and thinks when his body or face is so attractive. It is easy for a woman to understand that she was chosen only because of her appearance - on every occasion, the young man pulls you into bed, while outside her relationships are either sluggish or not developing at all. You do not cook dinners together, do not attend theaters, do not get out together in nature and do not share joint hobbies. All past time comes down to lying on the couch and watching movies, because this will necessarily end with such a sexual intercourse, which was so desirable for him. Unfortunately, physical relationships are the only closeness between you. And as soon as a new, cute or original partner appears, you will immediately hear the dreary “sorry, goodbye”.
9. Seeks to show you to his friends
Of course, why hide such a "trophy". If a guy is not a man, but a primitive animal, then his desire to show off his victories and achievements, demonstrating the dominant position of the male, is quite understandable. In companies of the same ossified Neanderthals, a woman feels herself a prize, a victim, a trophy, but not guests. If a man truly loves and appreciates you, then he will acquaint only with significant people in his life - best friends (and there are not many), parents, and, perhaps, that’s all. The desire to drag you to new and new companies only confirms his boast and negligent intentions.
8. Avoids long conversations
This point stems from the first - why talk for a long time when there is an activity "more pleasant". He is not interested in your soul, outlook on life, feelings and aspirations. All these things oblige you to participate further in your life, to help achieve your desires, and this was not originally included in his plans. It’s much more comfortable to live here and now, reducing conversations to the necessary minimum “hello, today to me?” etc.
7. Compliments only regarding appearance
For any prize and trophy, what parameters are important - how weighty, how shiny it is and what is written on it. Do not be surprised that with a temporary partner everything is exactly the same. The guy appreciates only your slim figure, clothes and accessories, good styling and makeup. You won’t hear the treasured “oh, what dimples on your cheeks” or “you wrinkle your nose so cute when you get angry” from him. Only such a sensitive and truly in love guy can notice such spiritual things. Therefore, do not take on faith all those sweet speeches about your beauty that he is ready to share at least daily. All such compliments describe exclusively your physical component, and it, as discussed earlier, is necessary for him exclusively for carnal pleasures.
6. Stares at others
Many may begin to be indignant - well, you, all men are polygamous in nature and they just need to periodically look at other “females”. A very exaggerated opinion imposed on women by the guys themselves, because it is so profitable, is not it? Have you ever seen a man in love? Did you fall in love? At the moment of true feelings, you see the beauty of the soul - one that no one else can see. What is there miniskirts or neckline, which are around a dime a dozen. If a man goes next to his beloved woman, then the world simply ceases to exist and interests him, and the views on other people (both women and men) will be indifferent and indifferent.
If your young man with admiration casts sidelong glances at the vulgar girls, and even worse - turns his neck after them or comments on his preferences in front of you, then, alas, the relationship is doomed.
5. Does not make plans for the future
And what kind of future can be discussed if you were chosen solely on the basis of the “most beautiful souvenir”? He was not interested in what kind of mistress you are (it’s good if you got a bonus as well - you can eat delicious after sex). He does not care how many dogs and children you want, where you plan to live and grow old, what aspirations drive you. Such men prefer to live the moment here and now, planning no more than 1 trip to the store or trips to the sea in the summer season. Even if you are together for a long time, go on vacation and exchange gifts - this does not change anything. A loving man knows exactly and reliably who you are and what your life plans are. Moreover, your and his plans on the main issues coincide, which contributes to your joint development as individuals.
4. Forbidden to meet friends
Indeed, this is an unreasonable waste of your beauty and energy, and you should belong only to him alone. The souvenir should stand on a shelf where he will supposedly carefully wash dust particles from it. By limiting your freedom and your desires, a man demonstrates that he does not wish you any spiritual growth. You are quite satisfied with it at that stage of development that is now. And this suggests that he is only interested in the external "wrapper" and nothing else.
And one more thing - honest friends can open a girl’s eyes for using her for fleeting dates. And our “predator” cannot afford to allow the victim to make a decision on his own and run away. If anyone will choose and change a partner, then only he.
3. Very jealous
It flows from the previous paragraph. It is not good for his own beauty to share her appearance with others. And suddenly, by chance, another stronger male “casts an eye” at her, and the trophy smoothly moves from one hand to another. I understand you don’t like being a trophy. But so why do you allow, with or without reason, to limit your freedom? One question is that you really wear provocative clothes, because it’s so fashionable, and it’s “indecent” to go to clubs in decent clothes. Then his jealousy is justified - he simply protects your honor and dignity. Another point that he is hysterical about new alien likes on your pages on social networks is frantically leafing through the phone for “male” numbers and interrogating in detail after each walk with friends.
2. Offended if you do not reciprocate on harassment
The main purpose of a beautiful woman is to satisfy the whims of a man at any time convenient for him. If she is not able to come to the rescue at the first call, then what is the reason for being with this? The first reaction will be affectionate resentment, they say, “come on, I know that you also want this, and my mother will forgive you for being late.” Then the man gets overwhelmed with irritation - as it is, they began to refuse him. Inexplicable insults begin, he breaks down at the slightest occasion, appoints dates less and less, and they must necessarily include physical contact. Then there are threats that if you do not become more compliant, then the relationship will end. Is that familiar? Run as fast as you can!
1. Leaves right after sex
Well this is a classic of the genre! Didn’t you yourself guess that in front of you a typical male inseminator is only a means of protection. His plans are to “walk” through all the noble beauties whom only he can invite to his den. And if he “imitates” the appearance of a relationship with you, then this is short-lived. Throw a man with a double life immediately - this option is absolutely hopeless.
Unfortunately, female beauty for many men represents only a set of external characteristics. But for a full and healthy relationship, it is very important that your chosen one makes out the absolutely unique beauty of your soul.